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He continues to talk about the compliance test that beautiful women subconciously give guys to test whether he can become a potential mate. It is called a “filtering mechanism” where she filters out all the weak and not confident men because she doesn’t want those men in her life. Women do this to test whether you are used to having beautiful women in your life because they’ll be intrigued and curious to why other gorgeous women are in your life.

The 3 tests that women give men to confirm a potential mate

1. They use a compliance test to see whether a man will do them a favor, but in reality she’s just asking to see if he will jump off your seat and do anything for her. In truth she doesn’t want him to do anything because she doesn’t want a man who will bend to her every will. If he fails this then he will be joked about or fall into the “friend zone.”

Example: the typical compliance test is “will you buy me a drink?”, and usually women do this just to get free drinks. Or she will just use him to buy her another drink and maybe call him to go out to dinner and have you pay everything, while she refers to him as “her personal ATM machine.”

2. The next test is called a Congruence Test and she will usually give a man this test if he is acting more confident than he really is. Everything might be going well, and all of a sudden she will make fun of him.

For example she might just all of a sudden say, “Where did you get those stupid shoes from, Walmart?” Usually guys who aren’t confident will look down or stop talking for a bit, but confident guys are used to being insulted, and know how to respond.

3. The final test is called the Gender Role Test and it is more elusive than the others. The test determines whether or not a man wants to play the “male gender role” in the relationship. Women usually give this test very early on, in the first 5-10 minutes within the conversation. If she gives this test then it means she considers him as a potential long-term partner.

She will start to take lead of the interaction, begin to tell you what to do, talk to another person in the middle of the conversation. She’s testing whether or not he is strong enough to lead the relationship and if she can trust you later on. If you step forward, get angry, or even sit back and let her lead then she will know that he will fall under pressure in the future and not consider him a potential mate anymore.

Any kind of tests mean that the woman is interested and considers a man a potential mate. Keep that in mind.

Best of Luck,
Nico
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